Parenting is no longer natural, we have to learn to parent.
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Parenting is no longer natural, we have to learn to parent. ---
Conscious Parenting
“Awaken the Conscious Parent in you.
You and your child deserve no less.”
If you would like to raise & nurture children who are;
self empowered,
resilient,
self motivated,
authentic,
with high self esteem,
with emotional intelligence,
knows who they are,
rooted in their worthiness, then,
WELCOME TO CONSCIOUS PARENTING.
Of course, we all want to raise our children to have the attributes mentioned above, but are you thinking?
I have other day to day parenting problems to fix, like how to;
teach my child good manners,
make my child listen and behave,
teach my child to be respectful,
stop sibling rivalry,
get them out of the door on time,
make them stop yelling, hitting, throwing tantrums, being angry,
manage my child’s anxiety,
keep them busy, happy, occupied,
make them share their problems,
stop them from talking back with attitude,
make them tidy their rooms,
limit their screen time,
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Yes, parenting is difficult, hard, tough, stressful, thankless, never ending task with few moments of happiness in between AND we were told that parenting comes naturally.
Have you tried everything?
Time outs,
taking things away,
grounding,
discipline,
punishments,
gentle parenting tips,
positive parenting tips,
getting angry,
explaining,
using logic,
rewards, stickers, points, charts and
many more endless parenting tools & tips.
Are these parenting tips & tools not working anymore?
Does it feel like it’s impossible to get your children to listen to you, to get them to stop fighting, stop throwing tantrums, stop yelling, hitting, being rude, stick to the screen time, …?
Do you need help in reducing the tension, stress and conflict in your home?
Do you want to form deep connection with your children that may perhaps, have them want to listen to you?
Practising Conscious Parenting is the golden key to bringing down the stress levels in your home, to reducing conflicts, daily battles and making deeper connection with your children.
What is Conscious Parenting?
It is ‘PARENT FOCUSED’ and ‘RELATIONSHIP FOCUSED’. These are the parts that we can have more control over.
It helps us see how important our own transformation is in supporting our child’s emotional development.
We raise the awareness of our internal triggers and shift our attention from our child’s behaviour to our own before we move on to our children.
Why is this the revolutionary way of parenting?
Our childhood has a deep impact on our parenting.
Conscious parenting focuses on how our own childhood impacted us, our emotional baggage, our generational trauma, our coping patterns and how all of these things are now, impacting our children’s childhood and the way we parent.
We work on healing our inner child wounds and become the pattern disrupters, and say no more to passing down of emotional legacy that have been handed down through generations.
We reparent ourselves so that we can parent our child effectively, from a calm, rooted, grounded, aligned, authentic, healing space within us.
Why is it so difficult to change?
We try to bring changes to our outside hoping it will change our inside. This can only work temporarily, if at all.
Change is an inside to outside process, just like healing.
Hence, we have to first get to the root of our behaviour, our actions and the root is our ‘BELIEF SYSTEM’.
Our belief system was formed in our brain, in our early childhood, through our earliest experiences, our social, cultural and parental conditioning.
We look at the world through the lenses of our belief system, this includes how we look at our children.
We have to be willing to be curious about and address, our belief systems, our conditioning, our lenses that we look through in order to create room for real, long term, authentic changes.
When we begin to connect to our own essence, it becomes easier to connect to our child’s essence.
When we approach parenting from a space of connection first, then implement new ways of interacting and communicating with our children, other changes will follow.
There are many conscious parenting tools that we have access to that do not make holes in our child’s wholeness that they are born with and help them develop the life skills they will need & can rely on throughout their life.
Give Conscious Parenting a try and watch the transformation in you and your children.
Let’s raise the child in front of us and not our fantasy child.
We learnt to wear masks in our childhood and carried to adulthood and now we pass it on to our children unconsciously.
Let’s stop the cycle, let’s stop the passing down of generational patterns.
CONSCIOUS PARENTING IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN MINIMISE THE PASSING DOWN OF OUR OWN GENERATIONAL PATTERNS AND EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE.
IN DOING SO, OUR CHILDREN WILL BE ALLOWED TO STAY AS CLOSE AS POSSIBLE TO
THEIR ESSENCE, THEIR BEING, THEIR TRUE SELF.
